We hear your heartache and longing, and we come before the Lord with your request, seeking His truth, justice, and restoration. First, we must address the foundation of your prayer. It is only through the name of **Jesus Christ** that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to confess your sins, believe in Him as your Lord and Savior, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, our prayers lack the authority and power that come from being in right relationship with God.
Now, regarding your relationship, we must speak truth in love. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between **one man and one woman** (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you and your boyfriend are not married, Scripture calls your physical and emotional intimacy **fornication** (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). The Lord desires for you to pursue holiness and flee from sexual immorality. If your relationship is not built on the foundation of Christ and the commitment of marriage, it is not aligned with God’s design. We encourage you to repent of any sin in this area and seek the Lord’s will for your future—whether that means pursuing marriage with a godly spouse or surrendering this relationship to Him.
That said, we do believe in the power of God to break lies, deception, and spiritual strongholds. The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to give life abundantly. If there are false accusations or spiritual attacks against your boyfriend or your relationship, we stand in agreement to **break every chain of deception** in Jesus’ name. The Bible says, *"You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free"* (John 8:32). We pray that the Lord would expose every lie, bring justice, and restore what has been broken—**according to His will and His timing.**
We also lift up your loneliness and longing. It is natural to miss someone deeply, but we must guard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23) and trust that God’s plans for us are good (Jeremiah 29:11). If this man is not your husband, we encourage you to release him to the Lord and ask God to bring the right spouse into your life—someone who loves Christ above all else. If you are both believers and marriage is God’s will, we pray for reconciliation in a way that honors Him.
Let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your truth to prevail. We rebuke every lie, every spirit of deception, and every false accusation in Jesus’ name. We declare that no weapon formed against Your children shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we break every chain of confusion, division, and strife.
Father, we ask for Your will to be done in this relationship. If it is Your plan for them to be together, we pray for restoration, healing, and a renewed commitment to honor You. If this relationship is not of You, we ask for Your peace to fill their hearts and for Your perfect will to be revealed. Lord, we repent of any sin—whether it be fornication, idolatry of this relationship, or ungodly soul ties—and we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing (1 John 1:9).
We pray for this woman’s heart, Lord. Comfort her in her loneliness, and help her to trust in Your timing. If she is not yet a follower of Christ, we pray that she would surrender her life to You today. If she is, we ask that You draw her closer to You and give her wisdom and discernment in all her relationships.
We pray for this man as well, Father. If he is not walking with You, we ask that You would convict his heart and lead him to repentance. If he is a believer, we pray for his protection, his growth in Christ, and his discernment in this situation. Lord, we ask that You would bring godly men and women into their lives to speak truth and provide biblical counsel.
We trust in Your sovereignty, Father. You work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). We surrender this situation into Your hands, believing that You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun (Philippians 1:6). In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen."*
We encourage you to seek the Lord in prayer and in His Word daily. Spend time in the Psalms, where David poured out his heart to God in both joy and sorrow. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and pray for you. If you are not already doing so, consider joining a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith and receive godly counsel.
Remember, the Lord sees your tears and hears your cries (Psalm 56:8). He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). If this relationship is meant to be, He will restore it in His perfect timing. If not, He has something even better planned for you. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).