Be More Assertive
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We understand your struggle and commend you for seeking a Christ-like balance between being assertive and kind. God does not want us to be doormats, nor does He want us to be aggressive or mean. Instead, He calls us to be assertive in a way that is firm, respectful, and loving.
Let's look at what the Scriptures say. In Ephesians 4:15 WEB, "speaking the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." This verse teaches us to speak the truth firmly, but always in love. It is possible to be both assertive and loving at the same time.
In Matthew 5:39 WEB, "But I tell you, don't resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also." This does not mean we should be doormats, but rather, we should not retaliate or take revenge. We can stand up for ourselves and our rights without striking back or being mean.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved one who desires to be more assertive. We ask that You fill them with Your Holy Spirit, granting them the wisdom to discern when to speak up and when to be silent, the courage to speak the truth in love, and the grace to do so respectfully and kindly. Help them to stand up for their rights in a way that honors You and reflects the character of Jesus Christ. Give them opportunities to practice assertiveness, and help them to grow in this area day by day.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, timidity, or passivity that may be hindering this one, and we speak boldness, confidence, and self-control in its place. We pray that they will not be a doormat, but they will also not be aggressive or mean. We ask that You help them to find that Christ-like balance, and that they will be a light to those around them, demonstrating the power of speaking the truth in love.
We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. For it is in His name that we have access to You, Father, and it is by His name that we are saved. If this one has not yet accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, we pray that they will do so now, believing in their heart that Jesus Christ is Lord, and confessing with their mouth that God has raised Him from the dead. We pray that they will be saved, for 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.' (Romans 10:13 WEB)
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, being assertive does not mean being pushy or demanding. It means expressing your needs, wants, and rights in a way that is clear, direct, and respectful. It is a fruit of the Spirit of God within you (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB).
Practice assertiveness daily, starting with small things and building up to bigger issues. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you and give you the words to say. Trust in the power of God who raised Jesus from the dead.
Remember that you are a child of God, dearly loved and greatly valued (Ephesians 2:4-5 WEB). You do not have to accept mistreatment or disrespect. Stand up for yourself, always remembering to speak the truth in love.
Let's look at what the Scriptures say. In Ephesians 4:15 WEB, "speaking the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." This verse teaches us to speak the truth firmly, but always in love. It is possible to be both assertive and loving at the same time.
In Matthew 5:39 WEB, "But I tell you, don't resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also." This does not mean we should be doormats, but rather, we should not retaliate or take revenge. We can stand up for ourselves and our rights without striking back or being mean.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved one who desires to be more assertive. We ask that You fill them with Your Holy Spirit, granting them the wisdom to discern when to speak up and when to be silent, the courage to speak the truth in love, and the grace to do so respectfully and kindly. Help them to stand up for their rights in a way that honors You and reflects the character of Jesus Christ. Give them opportunities to practice assertiveness, and help them to grow in this area day by day.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, timidity, or passivity that may be hindering this one, and we speak boldness, confidence, and self-control in its place. We pray that they will not be a doormat, but they will also not be aggressive or mean. We ask that You help them to find that Christ-like balance, and that they will be a light to those around them, demonstrating the power of speaking the truth in love.
We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. For it is in His name that we have access to You, Father, and it is by His name that we are saved. If this one has not yet accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, we pray that they will do so now, believing in their heart that Jesus Christ is Lord, and confessing with their mouth that God has raised Him from the dead. We pray that they will be saved, for 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.' (Romans 10:13 WEB)
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, being assertive does not mean being pushy or demanding. It means expressing your needs, wants, and rights in a way that is clear, direct, and respectful. It is a fruit of the Spirit of God within you (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB).
Practice assertiveness daily, starting with small things and building up to bigger issues. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you and give you the words to say. Trust in the power of God who raised Jesus from the dead.
Remember that you are a child of God, dearly loved and greatly valued (Ephesians 2:4-5 WEB). You do not have to accept mistreatment or disrespect. Stand up for yourself, always remembering to speak the truth in love.
We've been there, feeling like a doormat while others walk all over us. It's tough, but remember, God wants us to be firm, respectful, and loving - not doormats or bullies. Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, help us to find that balance, to stand up for ourselves without being mean. Fill us with Your Spirit, giving us wisdom to know when to speak up and when to be silent. Help us to speak the truth in love, always. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen."
"Dear Lord, help us to find that balance, to stand up for ourselves without being mean. Fill us with Your Spirit, giving us wisdom to know when to speak up and when to be silent. Help us to speak the truth in love, always. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen."
JesusourLordandSavior
Beloved of All
Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I pray Heavenly Father that you will grant wisdom and strength in these situations. I lift this prayer up on your glory and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
The Encourager
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
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