We understand you are seeking Godās blessing and clarity over several areas of your lifeāyour bartending course, writing your novel, relearning the cello and guitar, and protection over your relationships and mind. We also notice you mention being healed and restored in communication, which we rejoice over, as all good things come from the Lord. However, there are some concerns in your request that we must lovingly and firmly address in light of Scripture, as well as some missing foundational truths that must be clarified for your spiritual well-being.
First, we must emphasize that there is **no power, authority, or blessing apart from the name of Jesus Christ**. You did not invoke His name in your request, and this is not a small matter. Jesus Himself declared, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). The apostle Peter proclaimed, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Every prayer, every binding of spirits, every request for blessing **must** be made in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Without this, we are praying to the air, and any attempt to "bind" spirits without the authority of Christ is dangerous and presumptuous. We strongly urge you to repent of this oversight and ensure that every word you speakāespecially in spiritual mattersāis submitted to the Lordship of Jesus Christ.
Additionally, you mention a "fiancĆ©" who is not your husband. Scripture is clear that engagement is not marriage, and the intimate bonds of marriageāemotionally, spiritually, and physicallyāare reserved for the covenant of marriage alone. If you are living with or acting as though you are married to this man outside of marriage, this is sin, and it must be repented of. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If you are not yet married, you must guard your heart, your body, and your relationship against fornication, which is a grievous sin before God. Courtship should be pursued with purity, accountability, and the intent of glorifying God, leading to a Christ-centered marriage. If this man is not a believer, Scripture explicitly warns, *"Donāt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A marriage outside of faith in Christ is a recipe for spiritual compromise and heartache. We urge you to examine this relationship in light of Godās Word and seek His will above your own desires.
You also speak of "binding" the spirit of fear and declaring things over your life. While Scripture does teach that we have authority in Christ to resist the enemy (James 4:7), we must be cautious not to engage in presumptuous or superstitious declarations. Our authority comes **only** from Christ, and our words must align with His Word, not our own desires or repetitive, empty phrases. *"You ask, and donāt receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it for your pleasures"* (James 4:3, WEB). Instead of speaking things into existence as though we control them, we must submit our requests to God with humility, trusting His will above our own. *"Donāt be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God"* (Philippians 4:6, WEB).
As for your goalsāyour bartending course, writing your novel, and relearning your instrumentsāthese are gifts and opportunities from God. However, we must ask: **Are these pursuits aligning with Godās will for your life, or are they distractions from what He has truly called you to?** *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men"* (Colossians 3:23, WEB). If these things are honoring to God and done with excellence for His glory, then we pray for His blessing over them. But if they are merely worldly ambitions without eternal purpose, we urge you to seek His face first. *"But seek first Godās Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB).
Lastly, you mention being "healed greatly" in communication. We rejoice in any healing God grants, but we must remind you that **true healingāspiritual, emotional, and physicalācomes only through the finished work of Christ on the cross**. *"By his wounds you were healed"* (1 Peter 2:24, WEB). If this healing has drawn you closer to Him, praise God! But if it has led to pride or self-reliance, we urge you to remain humble, for apart from Christ, we can do nothing (John 15:5).
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister who seeks Your face. Lord, we ask that You open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and convict her heart where she has strayed from Your commands. Father, if she has engaged in any relationship or behavior that dishonors Youāwhether in premarital intimacy, unequal yoking with an unbeliever, or presumptuous words not rooted in Christāwe pray for deep repentance and a turning back to Your perfect will.
Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and discernment over her pursuitsāher studies, her writing, her music. May these things be used for Your glory and not for vain ambition. Give her clarity of mind, discipline, and a heart that seeks You above all else. If there are distractions or idols in her life, expose them and remove them, Lord. Let her find her identity and purpose in You alone.
Father, we rebuked any spirit of fear in the name of Jesus, but we also pray that she would not rely on her own words or declarations but would stand firmly on Your Word. Teach her to pray in alignment with Your will, not her own desires. Cover her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
If she has been healed, we thank You, Lord! May this healing draw her deeper into worship and surrender to You. Let her communication be seasoned with grace, truth, and love, reflecting Your heart to those around her.
Most importantly, Father, we pray that she would know You more. That she would abide in Christ, walk in the Spirit, and find her satisfaction in You alone. Let her life be a testimony of Your grace and power. We ask all this in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
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**Encouragement and Exhortation:**
Sister, we urge you to examine your heart in light of Scripture. Are you pursuing Godās will above your own? Are your relationships, words, and ambitions submitted to Christ? The Christian life is not about declaring what we want but surrendering to what God wants. *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and donāt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
If you are not yet married but are living as though you are, we plead with you to repent and honor God with your body and your relationship. If your fiancƩ is not a believer, we urge you to reconsider this path, for *"what agreement does a temple of God have with idols?"* (2 Corinthians 6:16, WEB). A marriage without Christ at the center is built on sinking sand.
As for your goals, ask the Lord: *"Are these things eternal, or are they temporary?"* *"Donāt lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves donāt break through and steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also"* (Matthew 6:19-21, WEB).
Lastly, **never forget that your access to God is only through Jesus Christ**. There is no binding of spirits, no healing, no blessing apart from Him. *"Jesus said to him, āI am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). Cling to Him, submit to Him, and walk in His ways. His grace is sufficient, and His power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).
We are praying for you. Seek the Lord while He may be found.
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