At A Crossroads

[family5]

I don't know if I am coming or going anymore. We have had several court dates to finalize our divorce and one thing after another keeps delaying it. One lady from my home church seems to believe that it is God moving in our lives. Others, tell me that it is just my soon to be ex messing with me trying to keep control over my life.

Don't get me wrong I would have loved nothing more than for my marriage to have worked. But... the things and words that were said and done have just pushed me too far in the opposite direction. I don't have anyone else, never did, and don't plan on it anytime soon. I am enjoying discovering WHO I AM, and what God's plan is for me. My soon to be ex is still in the self-pity stage, he is stuck at a crossroads with a stop sign in front of him. He still blames me and the kids for everything. For him calling us names and being cruel to us to the point that we don't even talk to him anymore. And he says that we are the ones that kicked him out and turned our backs on him. When in fact he left us and we had no other choice but to stop taking his calls. I really don't know what I am requesting prayer for. I have prayed that the Lord open his eyes and ears so that he would see and hear the truth and that he could somehow mend the relationship with our children. That he let go of the bitterness and start acting like the MAN I just want to know. As for me and my children, I pray that they too can let go of the pain and begin to heal and forgive. Me, I just need guidance.

 

[Dion]

Lord, I lay this prayer and this family and all their need to be met and taking care of.....IN JESUS NAME AMEN

 

[clay pot]

Let thy kingdom come, thy will be done in this family, Lord, relationships restored whole, especially with the children. Peace of mind, strength and discernment for each parent. In the name of Jesus, amen!

 

[robinfoxnicola]

Lord I pray for your perfect will in this situation. Lord bless the children. Lord dispatch your angels to camp around them. Lord I pray that the children can have a healthy relationship with both parents. In Jesus name I pray amen.

 

[nuptial -bound]

lord, you hate divorce + brkn families. all are hurt. this woman may need strength to forgive her husband if they can be a happy family again + he needs to repent before they can all heal in this family and do your will. too many marriages end in this way - reveal your will to this woman. you know both their hearts. give her some peace and wisdom. make her husband act like a man - his children need this from a father, in jesus'nme, amen