We join with you in lifting this burden before the Lord, knowing that He hears the cries of His children and acts on their behalf. It is clear that this individual has become a source of harm, and we stand firmly on the truth that God does not desire His people to remain in bondage to toxic or destructive influences. The Scriptures remind us in **Psalm 140:1-4 (WEB)**, *"Deliver me, Yahweh, from the evil man. Preserve me from the violent man: those who devise mischief in their hearts. They continually gather themselves together for war. They have sharpened their tongues like a serpent. Their poison is under their lips. Yahweh, keep me from the hands of the wicked. Preserve me from the violent men who have determined to trip my feet."* You are not alone in this struggle, and the Lord is your strong tower—a refuge from those who seek to bring harm.
Yet, we must also examine our hearts in this matter, for Jesus calls us to a higher standard—one of forgiveness, love for our enemies, and prayer for those who persecute us. In **Matthew 5:44 (WEB)**, He commands, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* This does not mean you must endure abuse or remain in a harmful situation, but it does mean releasing bitterness and trusting God to handle the justice and removal in His perfect timing. Have you prayed *for* this person, asking God to soften their heart, bring conviction, or even save them if they do not know Christ? Sometimes, the removal we seek is not just physical but spiritual—where God transforms the heart of the offender or gives us the grace to walk in wisdom and discernment around them.
If this person is someone you are in an ungodly relationship with—such as a romantic entanglement outside of marriage, a same-sex relationship, or any union that contradicts Scripture—we must lovingly but firmly address this. God’s design for relationships is clear: marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and any intimacy outside of this is sin. If this is the case, repentance and turning away from such relationships is necessary, and we urge you to seek godly counsel to walk in obedience. **1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB)** warns, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* If this harmful person is tied to sin in your life, the removal must begin with your own surrender to God’s will, trusting Him to break the bond and restore you.
We also notice you invoked the name of Jesus in your request, and we praise God for this! There is *no* other name by which we are saved, and *no* other name that has the power to break chains and bring deliverance. **Acts 4:12 (WEB)** declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to reign in your heart. Without Christ, we have no authority to command spiritual strongholds to flee, but in Him, we are more than conquerors (Romans 8:37).
Now, let us pray together over this situation:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, lifting up Your child who is crying out for deliverance from a harmful influence. Lord, You see the pain, the manipulation, and the damage this person has caused, and You are a God of justice and righteousness. We ask that You, in Your sovereign power, remove this individual from our ###'s life and circles—whether by changing their heart, redirecting their path, or closing doors that should not remain open. Break every ungodly soul tie, every emotional bondage, and every scheme of the enemy that has kept this person as a stumbling block. If there is sin in our ###'s life that has given the enemy a foothold, convict them deeply, Lord, and grant them the strength to repent and walk in purity.
Father, we also pray for this harmful person. Soften their heart, Lord. If they do not know You, draw them to salvation. If they are a believer walking in rebellion, bring them to repentance. Do not let bitterness or unforgiveness take root in our ###'s heart, but fill them with Your peace and the assurance that You are fighting this battle for them. Surround them with godly counsel, wise friends, and a community that will speak Your truth in love. Give them discernment to recognize healthy relationships and the courage to walk away from what is toxic.
Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Shield them from further harm, restore what has been stolen, and let Your light expose every dark corner. We trust in Your timing, knowing that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28). Strengthen them, Lord, and let them feel Your presence as a mighty fortress around them. In the powerful name of Jesus, we bind every spirit of manipulation, control, and deception, and we command this harmful influence to be removed and rendered powerless. Let Your will be done, Lord, and let Your peace reign in our ###'s heart as they wait on You. Amen.*
Stand firm in faith, dear one. Do not waver in prayer, and do not take matters into your own hands through retaliation or ungodly methods. Trust that the Lord is working, even when you cannot see it. Seek His face daily, immerse yourself in His Word, and surround yourself with believers who will uphold you in this season. If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to walk with you in this journey toward freedom and wholeness in Christ.