Angry husband
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We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical guidance.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of love and kindness, even in the face of anger. "Don’t let any evil talk come out of your mouths, but only what is useful for building up, so that it gives grace to those who hear. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you" Ephesians 4:29,31-32 WEB.
It's crucial to understand that your husband's behavior may be influenced by his condition, but it does not excuse his actions. He needs help beyond your own ability to support and provide. Pray for him, that God would intervene and guide him to seek the professional help he needs. "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" Galatians 6:2 WEB.
At the same time, it's important to set boundaries to protect yourself and your children from harmful behavior especially verbal abuse. "If anyone doesn’t provide for their own, and especially their own household, they have denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever" 1 Timothy 5:8 WEB. This does not mean leaving or disrespecting your spouse, but rather making it clear that certain behaviors will not be tolerated.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her husband. Lord, you know the struggles they are facing, and we ask for your divine intervention. Please guide her husband to seek the help he needs, and give her the strength and wisdom to set healthy boundaries. Protect their youngest son from the pain of hurtful words, and heal his heart. We are so grateful for the power to approach your throne of grace through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ who shed his own blood for our sins.
In Jesus Christ's precious name, we pray and plead for your intervention, Amen.
Lastly, we urge you to examine your own heart and actions, ensuring that you are not provoking or escalating the arguments. Seek God's guidance in how you can be a blessing to your husband and encourage him with the word of God. "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" Proverbs 15:1 WEB.
As a final word, anger is a human thing that we all deal with and experience. But it is not our job to try and change one another but instead to change ourselves to become more and more like Jesus. The only way to do that is to spend more time with him by praying, reading the Bible, and being in a fellowship of believers.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of love and kindness, even in the face of anger. "Don’t let any evil talk come out of your mouths, but only what is useful for building up, so that it gives grace to those who hear. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you" Ephesians 4:29,31-32 WEB.
It's crucial to understand that your husband's behavior may be influenced by his condition, but it does not excuse his actions. He needs help beyond your own ability to support and provide. Pray for him, that God would intervene and guide him to seek the professional help he needs. "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" Galatians 6:2 WEB.
At the same time, it's important to set boundaries to protect yourself and your children from harmful behavior especially verbal abuse. "If anyone doesn’t provide for their own, and especially their own household, they have denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever" 1 Timothy 5:8 WEB. This does not mean leaving or disrespecting your spouse, but rather making it clear that certain behaviors will not be tolerated.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her husband. Lord, you know the struggles they are facing, and we ask for your divine intervention. Please guide her husband to seek the help he needs, and give her the strength and wisdom to set healthy boundaries. Protect their youngest son from the pain of hurtful words, and heal his heart. We are so grateful for the power to approach your throne of grace through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ who shed his own blood for our sins.
In Jesus Christ's precious name, we pray and plead for your intervention, Amen.
Lastly, we urge you to examine your own heart and actions, ensuring that you are not provoking or escalating the arguments. Seek God's guidance in how you can be a blessing to your husband and encourage him with the word of God. "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" Proverbs 15:1 WEB.
As a final word, anger is a human thing that we all deal with and experience. But it is not our job to try and change one another but instead to change ourselves to become more and more like Jesus. The only way to do that is to spend more time with him by praying, reading the Bible, and being in a fellowship of believers.
We're here with you, sister, as you navigate this tough time. We've been where you are, feeling the sting of harsh words and the worry for our loved ones. It's like we're holding your hands, standing by your side.
We want to remind you of the power of forgiveness, just as we've been forgiven. "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32, NIV) Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened is okay, but it's the key to unlocking healing and peace.
Let's also pray for your husband. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on him. Help him recognize his need for professional help and guide him to seek it. Give him the courage to face his condition and the strength to change. In Jesus' name, we pray.
And remember, you're not alone in this. We're here, praying with you, believing with you, and walking this path with you. Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, our source of strength and hope. "Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God." (Hebrews 12:2, NIV)
We want to remind you of the power of forgiveness, just as we've been forgiven. "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32, NIV) Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened is okay, but it's the key to unlocking healing and peace.
Let's also pray for your husband. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on him. Help him recognize his need for professional help and guide him to seek it. Give him the courage to face his condition and the strength to change. In Jesus' name, we pray.
And remember, you're not alone in this. We're here, praying with you, believing with you, and walking this path with you. Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, our source of strength and hope. "Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God." (Hebrews 12:2, NIV)
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We continue to lift you and your ### up in prayer, trusting that God is at work in your situation. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, interceding for your ### and your family.
If you have seen improvements in his behavior and your family's dynamics, we would be blessed to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation is still challenging, we want you to know that we are here to continue praying with you and for you. Please post an update, and we will keep seeking God together for your ###'s healing and your family's peace.
May God bless you and your family as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray for His grace, wisdom, and love to surround and fill you all. We ask for this in Jesus Name.
If you have seen improvements in his behavior and your family's dynamics, we would be blessed to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation is still challenging, we want you to know that we are here to continue praying with you and for you. Please post an update, and we will keep seeking God together for your ###'s healing and your family's peace.
May God bless you and your family as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray for His grace, wisdom, and love to surround and fill you all. We ask for this in Jesus Name.
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