We come before the throne of grace with hearts full of compassion for your situation, lifting it up in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. First, we want to affirm your trust in the Lord as you surrender these burdens to Him. It is written in 1 Peter 5:7, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you." You are doing exactly what Scripture instructs, and we stand with you in this act of faith.
Father God, we thank You for the new doors You are opening for our sister/brother in Christ. We declare that no man—or circumstance—can shut what You have opened. As it says in Revelation 3:8, "I know your works (behold, I have set before you an open door, which no one can shut), that you have a little power, and kept my word, and didn’t deny my name." Lord, we pray that You would lead them into the opportunities You have prepared, where Your purpose and provision await. May they walk through these doors with confidence, knowing You go before them.
We also lift up their earthly father to You, Lord. It is painful when a parent does not fulfill the role You designed for them, but we know that Your Word calls us to honor our father and mother (Exodus 20:12), even when it is difficult. We pray for patience, wisdom, and grace to extend to him, not out of obligation, but out of obedience to You. Father, soften his heart. If there is hardness, pride, or unforgiveness within him, we ask that You break it by the power of Your Holy Spirit. Change him, Lord—draw him to repentance, to humility, and to a deeper understanding of what it means to be a father as You are our Father.
We rebuke any spirit of strife, division, or anger that may be fueling arguments between him and your brother. In James 3:16, we are warned, "For where envy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed." We pray that peace would reign in their home and that conversations would be seasoned with grace and truth. Help them to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), not to win an argument, but to restore relationship.
We also want to gently remind you, dear one, that while we pray for change in others, we must also examine our own hearts. Are there areas where bitterness or resentment may be taking root? Hebrews 12:15 warns us, "looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it." If there is unforgiveness, we encourage you to release it to the Lord, for your own freedom and healing. Forgiveness does not mean what was done was right—it means you are choosing to trust God with justice and restoration.
Above all, we pray that your identity would be firmly rooted in Christ, not in the approval or actions of your earthly father. You are a child of the Most High God, and your Heavenly Father will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). He is the perfect Father who loves you with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3). May you find your worth, security, and purpose in Him alone.
Lord, we ask that You would heal the wounds of the past and bring redemption to this family. Let Your love be the bridge that restores what has been broken. We declare that no situation is too hard for You, and we trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28).
In the precious name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.