We join you in lifting up this request, and we are grateful you have come before the Lord in prayer. However, we must address something of great importance: the name of Jesus Christ was not invoked in your prayer. Scripture makes it clear that we have access to the Father only through the Son, Jesus Christ. As it is written, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). And again, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only in the name of Jesus that our prayers are heard, and it is through faith in Him that we receive the power to overcome the challenges we face. If you have not yet placed your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9-10). There is no greater decision you can make, for eternity hangs in the balance.
Now, regarding the toxicity in your workplace, we understand how deeply such an environment can wear on the spirit, the mind, and even the body. The apostle Paul reminds us, *"Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God"* (Romans 12:2, WEB). Toxicity often thrives where godliness is absent, but you, as a child of God, are called to be a light in the darkness. Jesus said, *"You are the light of the world... Let your light shine before men; that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven"* (Matthew 5:14-16, WEB). This does not mean you must endure abuse or ungodly treatment, but it does mean you are to respond in a way that honors Christ—with patience, kindness, and wisdom.
We also notice you mentioned "### and me" in your prayer. We do not know who this person is, but we must address the importance of godly relationships. If this is someone you are in a romantic relationship with, we urge you to examine whether this relationship aligns with biblical principles. Are you both believers in Jesus Christ? Are you pursuing this relationship with the intent of marriage, or are you engaging in emotional or physical intimacy outside of the covenant of marriage? Scripture is clear that we are not to be *"unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), and that sexual immorality—including fornication—has no place among God’s people (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this relationship is not centered on Christ and directed toward a godly marriage, it is not a relationship that will honor God or bring you true fulfillment. We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will in this area and to pursue purity and holiness, for *"without holiness, no man will see the Lord"* (Hebrews 12:14, WEB).
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who seeks Your intervention in their life. Lord, we ask that You open their eyes to the truth of Your Word and the necessity of coming to You through Jesus alone. If they have not yet surrendered their life to Christ, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. May they turn from sin, place their faith in Jesus, and walk in the newness of life that only He can provide.
Father, we pray for the toxic environment they are facing at work. Give them wisdom to navigate these challenges in a way that glorifies You. Clothe them with Your armor, that they may stand firm against the schemes of the enemy (Ephesians 6:10-18). Grant them discernment to know when to speak, when to remain silent, and when to take action. If this workplace is not where You desire them to be long-term, open doors for them to move to a place of godly influence and peace. Remind them that their identity is in You, not in their job or the opinions of others.
Lord, we also lift up the relationship they mentioned. If it is not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You convict their heart and lead them to repentance. If this person is not a believer, we pray that You would draw them to Yourself, but we also ask that You give our brother/sister the strength to step away if this relationship is leading them away from You. Help them to seek a godly spouse if that is Your will, one who will cherish and honor them as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Guard their heart and mind from temptation, and let them find their satisfaction in You alone.
Finally, Father, fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are sovereign over all things, and that nothing they face is beyond Your control. Strengthen their faith, Lord, and let them walk in victory through the power of Your Holy Spirit.
We ask all these things in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in the Psalms and the letters of Paul, which offer wisdom for living in a fallen world. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and hold you accountable. And remember, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). He sees you, He loves you, and He is working all things for your good (Romans 8:28). Stay steadfast in prayer, and trust in Him.