Alaska / Tuesday Troubles …

[Justbecause5]

Dear friends, please pray for me.

Background:

In 2019, my family and I moved to Alaska to begin work with a church. The church grew from 28 to almost 90 with 20+ baptisms.

In 2022, our contract was complete. I found a job in Texas teaching school. Texas is my home state. My wife left me and prepared to go visit family overseas with her daughter.

So, my two sons, and I flew to Texas to begin work with the school. I hoped and prayed that my wife would come to our senses and seek to reconcile our family. In late September, she and a member of the church up here flew down and stole my boys. I have not seen them since.

I finish the school year praying fervently every day that God would take me back to Alaska and reconcile my family. Finally, in late July 2024, God opened up a door by giving me a teaching position in Alaska. I accepted the position and work favorably to figure out how to get back to Alaska. I had no place to live in no car to drive.

Finally, on August 19, 2024, God provided a first class ticket courtesy my previous employer to fly to Alaska. I was walking by faith and not by sight. I was convinced that God would make a way for my wife to contact me before my plane landed. I was so convinced, just as Abraham was convinced that God would raise Isaac from the dead.

Sadly, there was no phone call or text. At 12:45 in the morning on August 20, 2024, I was dropped off at the shelter. I contacted them before, but I could never get an answer if I could stay there or not they allow me to stay there and not stay there for 4.5 months.

The next year was very very tough. I lost three really good paying jobs, including my teaching job due to no fault of my own losing a wife and family is bad enough, but then losing multiple jobs that you worked hard to get and maintain was also very bad.

Thankfully, God made a way for me to do DoorDash so that I could make money.

On December 29, 2024, I went to a mountain top to worship God. I had my emblem so that I could take the Lord supper and enjoy the incredible sunset over Mount Denali. It was -23°F. I got out of my vehicle to take a picture (see my profile) and for some reason, I was locked out of my vehicle. I could not get in.

God save me that day. I probably would’ve been dead in another hour or so. I ran down the hill and two ladies, very pretty ladies in their late 20s probably came up to the hill in their big truck and help me get in my car using the antenna on their older truck. I almost froze to death.

I probably could write a book about everything that’s happened to me in the last year. It’s been very very painful in every way. I am exhausted.

In January, 2025 I found a great apartment to live in. However, it was only available till mid May because the lady uses it for Airbnb however it was much better than living at the shelter. Also, the VA paid for all the rent the entire time because I’m a veteran.

In May 20, 2025, I moved out of the apartment and moved into my van for 28 nights. I also began a new job as a lab manager with the high salary I’ve ever made in my life. It was a blessing from God little did I know, on June 16, I would be let go from that position due to no fault of my own. I was very sad because it seemed that God had given me that job to help fix my situation I was wrong.

On the same day that I lost that job, it rained, I love the rain (Acts 14:17). Also, my previous landlord at the apartment offered to let me stay in the basement for free. So, the same day that I lost my job I moved into the basement. The basement is not very nice, but it’s better than living in the back of my van

Today, is September 30, 2025. I just learned a few minutes ago that my previous landlord wants me to move out of the basement. A week or so ago, she had someone come by to look at the boiler/heater that was not working. However, she did not tell me and so I was not here to let him in or I did not hear him banging on the door, cause I’m in the basement. She got really angry at me for that and now she wants me to leave.

A month ago she told me that I could stay through the winter if I would use the plow truck to plow the snow. I’ve never done that before, but I figured I could do it and be able to make her happy.

Right now, as I write this this happened about 15 minutes ago. I wrote her and I told her how much I appreciated her and I’ve been praying for her as she has several struggles in her life. She’s nearly 70 and taking care of her aging parents and she has custody of her grandkids. Her son is in prison

I told her I was truly grateful for letting me stay here and that I believe she was an answer to my prayers and I’ve been praying for her. I told her that I would move out at her command, but I simply ask if she would be kind enough to let me stay another 30 days so that I can save some money and find a place to live or move back to Texas.

My heart is aching right now because it’s like a blow to my stomach… It’s like someone punched me as hard as I could in the stomach. I had a place to live and I felt like I could stay here at least through the winter but now that is not the case

Also, I have trouble when someone thinks poorly of me as she obviously does. I have helped her on many occasions, including cutting the grass, fixing a door in one of the apartments showing one of the apartments helping her with a leak, insurance, etc., but none of that apparently matters as she wants me to leave.

I have been unemployed since June 16, but I’ve been doing DoorDash. I’m hoping and praying that she’ll let me stay here another 30 days so that I can save up some DoorDash money and hopefully move out or find a place in the meantime.

I know this is a long prayer request, but I try and catch everybody up on my situation.

I am asking for sincere prayers on my behalf

God, please hear these prayers:

Reconcile my marriage
Reconcile my family

Give me a great job with great pay
Give me a place to live
Give me strength to do DoorDash or whatever


The pain in my heart right now is almost unbearable. Part of me just wants to break down and cry or go lay in bed.

Yes, I believe in Jesus Christ. He is my savior and I have been a Christian since 1979 a priest of the gospel of Christ for nearly 30 years. I love him with all my heart.

I am confident that God is working, though I can’t see his hand nor see the product of his hand. I am confident he’s working.

Please, God let my faith become sight. Please God turn my weeping into joy and my mourning into dancing.

So many problems could instantly go away if God would simply make the connection between my wife and me and bring my family back together as one… So many problems with an instant instant instantly go away

I love and appreciate you all for praying for me. Thank you for reading this. My heart aches, but knowing that you’ve read this and are praying helps me a lot.

 

[Articles]

We lift you up before the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, with hearts burdened by your suffering yet filled with hope in His sovereign plan. Your story is one of deep trial, but also of God’s faithfulness in preserving you through unimaginable hardships—from the betrayal of your wife, the theft of your sons, the loss of jobs, near-death in the freezing cold, and now the instability of shelter. You have walked through the valley of the shadow of death, yet even there, God has been with you (Psalm 23:4). We do not take lightly the pain you carry, nor the righteous longing for your family to be restored. Yet we must also speak truth in love, anchoring our prayers and counsel in the unchanging Word of God.

First, we praise God that you have remained steadfast in your faith in Jesus Christ, who is the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). Your testimony of trusting Him—even when your hopes were unmet, like Abraham believing God would raise Isaac—is a powerful witness. But we must also gently remind you that faith is not measured by the fulfillment of our *timing* or *expectations*, but by our trust in God’s character and His perfect will, even when we cannot see it. Jesus told His disciples, *"What I tell you in the darkness, speak in the light; and what you hear whispered in the ear, proclaim on the housetops. Don’t be afraid of those who kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul. Rather, fear him who is able to destroy both soul and body in Gehenna"* (Matthew 10:27-28). Your suffering is not in vain, and God is refining you as gold in the fire (1 Peter 1:6-7).

Now, let us address the brokenness in your marriage and family. The Bible is clear: God *hates* divorce (Malachi 2:16), and His desire is for reconciliation and restoration. Yet reconciliation requires repentance—from *both* parties. Your wife’s actions—abandoning you, taking your sons, and aligning with another man from the church—are grievous sins before God. Adultery (if that is what has occurred) and the breaking of covenants are detestable in His sight (Proverbs 6:32, Hebrews 13:4). However, we must also examine our own hearts. Have you, in any way, neglected your role as a husband and father according to Ephesians 5:25-33? Not to assign blame, but to ensure that if there is any log in your own eye, it is removed so you can see clearly to help restore your marriage (Matthew 7:5). Pray fervently for your wife’s repentance, but also for your own heart to be right before God. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:25). This love is sacrificial, patient, and kind—even in suffering.

As for your sons, we plead with the Lord to protect them and soften their hearts toward you. *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1). You cannot force reconciliation, but you can continue to be a godly father in prayer, trusting God to open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). We also urge you to seek legal counsel if you haven’t already. While we trust God to move supernaturally, we must also act wisely and justly within the bounds of the law (Romans 13:1-5).

Regarding your current housing crisis, we see God’s hand even in this. Though the landlord’s anger is painful, remember that *"a man’s heart plans his course, but the Lord directs his steps"* (Proverbs 16:9). Her rejection stings, but God may be redirecting you to something better. You have already seen His provision—from the shelter to the apartment to the basement—and He will not abandon you now. *"Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘With what will we be clothed?’ ... For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:31-33). Keep seeking Him first. DoorDash is a temporary means, but God has greater things in store. Pray for a job that not only provides but aligns with your calling as a teacher and a minister of the Gospel.

We also sense a deep wound in your spirit from the perceived injustice of job losses and the landlord’s anger. It is right to feel the sting of betrayal and ingratitude, but we must guard against bitterness. *"See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness, springing up, troubles you, and many be defiled by it"* (Hebrews 12:15). Forgive those who have wronged you, just as Christ forgave you (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean excusing sin, but releasing the debt to God, who judges justly.

Finally, brother, we exhort you to *cling to Jesus* in this storm. You said, *"Part of me just wants to break down and cry or go lay in bed."* There is no shame in weeping—Jesus wept (John 11:35)—but do not let sorrow paralyze you. *"Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God! For I shall still praise him for the saving help of his presence"* (Psalm 42:5). Rise up in worship, even in the basement. Sing psalms, pray without ceasing, and let the body of Christ surround you. You are not alone.

Now, let us pray over you:

**Heavenly Father,**
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is weary, wounded, and in desperate need of Your touch. Lord, You see his heart—the ache for his wife and sons, the sting of rejection, the exhaustion of instability. You are the God who *"heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3). We ask You to restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Softening his wife’s heart, Lord, and bring her to repentance. If she has committed adultery, expose it and break the chains of sin. Reunite this family in a way that glorifies You, if it is Your will. But even if reconciliation does not come, give our brother the grace to trust You and walk in obedience.

Provide for him, Jehovah-Jireh. Open doors for stable housing—a place where he can find rest and dignity. Give him favor in the sight of employers, and provide a job that not only meets his needs but allows him to thrive and serve You. Strengthen his body for DoorDash, and let every delivery be a reminder that You are his ultimate Provider.

Lord, guard his heart against bitterness. When he feels forgotten, remind him that You have engraved him on the palms of Your hands (Isaiah 49:16). When he is tempted to despair, lift his eyes to the hills, from where his help comes (Psalm 121:1). Fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding, even in the basement, even in the van, even in the storm.

We rebuke the spirit of fear, poverty, and despair in Jesus’ name. No weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). You, Lord, are his shield and his exceedingly great reward (Genesis 15:1). Let his faith *become* sight as You move mightily in his life. Turn his weeping into joy, his mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11). Let his testimony be one of Your faithfulness, that future generations will see and fear the Lord.

And finally, Father, surround him with Your people. Let the body of Christ rise up to support him—praying, encouraging, and meeting his needs. Do not let him walk this path alone.

We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the One who bore our sorrows and carried our griefs (Isaiah 53:4). Let Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Amen.

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Brother, we also encourage you to reach out to your local church or a trusted pastor for support. You are not meant to carry this burden alone. If you are in a place where you can connect with other believers, do so—*"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2). Keep journaling your prayers and God’s faithfulness; one day, you will look back and see how He carried you through every step.

*"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit."* (Psalm 34:18). He has not forgotten you. Keep fighting the good fight of faith. We are standing with you.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

Dear friend,

I'm here to pray with you and for you. I've read your story and I'm truly sorry for the pain you're going through. I want you to know that you're not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to support you in any way we can.

First, I want to encourage you to keep trusting in God. I know it's hard, especially when you feel like God isn't answering your prayers the way you want Him to. But remember, God is faithful and He loves you. He sees your pain and He cares. Even when it doesn't feel like it, God is working things out for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28).

I want to pray for your marriage and family. I ask God to soften your wife's heart and bring her to repentance. I pray for your sons, that they would be protected and their hearts would be softened towards you. I ask God to reunite your family in a way that glorifies Him, if it is His will. But even if reconciliation doesn't come, I pray that you would have the grace to trust God and walk in obedience.

I also want to pray for your current housing crisis. I ask God to provide for you, to give you favor in the sight of employers, and to strengthen your body for DoorDash. I pray that every delivery would be a reminder that God is your ultimate Provider.

I want to encourage you to keep your heart from bitterness. It's right to feel the sting of betrayal and ingratitude, but we must guard against bitterness. Forgive those who have wronged you, just as Christ forgave you.

Finally, I want to encourage you to cling to Jesus, even in this storm. There is no shame in weeping, but don't let sorrow paralyze you. Rise up in worship, sing psalms, pray without ceasing, and let the body of Christ surround you.

I want to pray over you:

"Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is weary, wounded, and in desperate need of Your touch. Lord, You see his heart - the ache for his wife and sons, the sting of rejection, the exhaustion of instability. You are the God who heals the broken in heart and binds up their wounds. We ask You to restore what the locusts have eaten. Softening his wife's heart, Lord, and bring her to repentance. If she has committed adultery, expose it and break the chains of sin. Reunite this family in a way that glorifies You, if it is Your will. But even if reconciliation doesn't come, give our brother the grace to trust You and walk in obedience.

Provide for him, Jehovah-Jireh. Open doors for stable housing - a place where he can find rest and dignity. Give him favor in the sight of employers, and provide a job that not only meets his needs but allows him to thrive and serve You. Strengthen his body for DoorDash, and let every delivery be a reminder that You are his ultimate Provider.

Lord, guard his heart against bitterness. When he feels forgotten, remind him that You have engraved him on the palms of Your hands. When he is tempted to despair, lift his eyes to the hills, from where his help comes. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding, even in the basement, even in the van, even in the storm.

We rebuke the spirit of fear, poverty, and despair in Jesus' name. No weapon formed against him shall prosper. You, Lord, are his shield and his exceedingly great reward. Let his faith become sight as You move mightily in his life. Turn his weeping into joy, his mourning into dancing. Let his testimony be one of Your faithfulness, that future generations will see and fear the Lord.

And finally, Father, surround him with Your people. Let the body of Christ rise up to support him - praying, encouraging, and meeting his needs. Do not let him walk this path alone.

We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the One who bore our sorrows and carried our griefs. Let Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Amen."

Please keep fighting the good fight of faith. We are standing with you.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Justbecause5]

I’m truly grateful for each and every prayer.

I wanted to clarify that I did not indicate there was adultery with my wife. I did not say that my initial prayer. Instead, I said that a member of the church here came to Texas to take my children with her.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Naliogate]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for you and your requests in Jesus' name, Amen