Adult Son & Daughter don’t speak

John14:1

Disciple of Prayer
My adult son refuses to speak to my daughter and it’s been like that for eight months now. Her heart is breaking and she can’t understand why. He thinks he is a class above her and he’s not a Christian so he is completely desensitized and actually has no conscience.
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this family torn by division and strife. Father God, Your Word tells us in Psalm 133:1, "Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!" Yet here, unity has been shattered, and the pain of this broken relationship weighs heavily on this mother’s heart, and surely on Yours as well.

First, we must address the root of this conflict with truth and love. The pride your son has shown, believing himself to be "a class above" his sister, is a grievous sin in Your sight. Proverbs 16:18 warns, "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." His lack of conscience and refusal to acknowledge You as Lord is even more alarming, for Romans 1:28-32 speaks of those who reject You, saying, "Even as they refused to have God in their knowledge, God gave them up to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not fitting." This is a dangerous path, and we must pray fervently for his soul.

But we also lift up your daughter, Lord, who is deeply wounded by this rejection. Her heart is breaking, and she longs for reconciliation. We ask that You comfort her with the truth of Your Word, reminding her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that her worth is not defined by her brother’s opinion. Help her to release bitterness and entrust her pain to You, for vengeance belongs to You alone (Romans 12:19).

Father, we rebuke the spirit of division and pride that has taken hold in this family. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are able to soften even the hardest of hearts. We pray for your son, that You would open his eyes to his need for You. John 14:6 tells us, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Without Christ, he is lost, and his conscience is seared. But with You, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).

We ask that You would bring godly influences into his life, believers who can speak truth in love and show him the path to salvation. May he come to know the depth of Your love and the freedom found only in Christ. And for your daughter, Lord, give her the strength to love him as You do, even from a distance. Help her to pray for him without ceasing, trusting that You are at work even when she cannot see it.

We also pray for wisdom for this mother, who bears the weight of this conflict. Give her the words to speak life and truth into both of her children’s lives. May she be a vessel of Your peace, pointing them to the hope found in Christ alone.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we ask these things, believing that You are able to restore what has been broken. We declare that this family will not remain divided, for You are the God who heals and makes all things new. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body​

 
Romans 8:28,29: And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose...to be conformed to the image of his Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren.

🙏 ❤️🙏Prayer Focus: God, I ask You in Jesus’ name help me to always remember that all things are working together for my good, to conform me into the image of Your Son, because I love You and I am called according to Your purpose. Let me look at everything I go through as a lesson. Let me not complain. Let me not waste the experience. Let me ask You, "What am I to learn from this?" And then bless me to relax, focus, learn, and grow from the experience.

Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, strength, and grace to successfully handle the tests, trials, temptations, and blessings that come my way that reflects Your heart. So that You will be seen in my life and You will be glorified. Bless me to become more knowledgeable, wiser, stronger, and skillful handling every situation You allow to come my way. God in my weaknesses, make me strong. Draw me closer to You. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those I love, and care about. God forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Amen, so be it by faith. Thank You. Thank You, Lord Jesus.[/SIZE][/FONT] Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.encourager.us

Depply In Love With You, God!
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer for your family.

We have continued to lift up your adult son and daughter before the Lord. We have been praying for your daughter whose heart is breaking after eight months of silence and who cannot understand why her brother refuses to speak to her. We ask the Lord to comfort her broken heart and to remind her that He is close to the brokenhearted as promised in Psalm 34:18. We have also been praying for your son, that the Lord would humble him and remove any pride that makes him think he is a class above his sister, and that God would soften his heart. We pray that God would convict him and draw him to salvation, to give him a new heart and a new spirit as promised in Ezek 36:26, and to awaken his conscience to love and grace.

We stand in agreement with you that God would bring reconciliation and restoration between them, that He would teach them both humility and forgiveness as taught in Phil 2:3 and Eph 4:32, and that this division would be healed for His glory.

If your request was answered and the Lord has begun to restore communication between your son and daughter or has softened your sons heart, please post a praise report and let us all know so we may rejoice with you. If your request does not seem to have been answered and the estrangement continues, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We pray in Jesus Name, Amen.
 

Latest Activity (auto refresh)

Loading…

Similar Requests

Jesus please let my son be ok at school today and remember everything that he has to do. Please also let my daughter be safe on her trip and no problems with her plane. Please also let the people I emailed about a meeting just let me send an email and not be there in person, I cannot handle it...
Replies
9
Views
250
My son and daughter-in-law had a baby in September. They both are seemingly doing well but they’re struggling with all the things that come with having a child and adult responsibilities. They’ve only been married two years and they both naturally seem to have a negative vent but yet both say...
Replies
7
Views
351
I pray lord that u watch over over my son and daughter guide them down the right path in life that they do well in school let no evil or harm come to them. They make good choices in life let my son be able to speak and they know they are loved by u lord. Don’t let them be around bad influences...
Replies
6
Views
267
Your donations for running this web site are greatly appreciated.

Click To Make A Donation

Forum statistics

Threads
2,093,954
Messages
16,805,195
Members
650,429
Latest member
Straeror

Latest Blogs & Articles

Back
Top Bottom