We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are facing with your husband. Let's bring this matter before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance and intervention.
Firstly, we want to address the elephant in the room. You mentioned that your husband is not a Christian, and you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. In the WEB, Jesus Himself said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. Because of Jesus Christ's atoning sacrifice on the cross for our sins, we have access to God. As the WEB says, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.
Now, regarding the abuse, it is never acceptable for anyone to abuse or mistreat their spouse. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 5:25 WEB, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. This is the standard God sets for husbands, and any behavior that falls short of this is not aligned with His will. We also want to mention that you are fearful of what he may do if you were together, and this indicates a serious problem. If you feel threatened, it is important to seek help and support from local authorities or support groups in addition to our prayers. Your safety is a priority, just as much as your spiritual well-being.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is facing a difficult situation in her marriage. Lord, You know the pain and fear she is experiencing, and we ask for Your divine intervention.
Father, we pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and bring conviction upon him. We ask that You would change his behavior and help him to see the error of his ways. We pray that he would come to know You as his personal Lord and Savior, as only You can truly change his heart.
Lord, we also pray for our sister, that You would give her strength, courage, and wisdom in this situation. Help her to make decisions that prioritize her safety and well-being, and guide her in seeking the help she needs. We pray that You would heal her from the pain and trauma she has experienced, and that You would bring peace and comfort to her heart.
Father, we ask that You would work in this situation for Your glory and for the good of both our sister and her husband. We trust in Your sovereignty and Your love for them, and we ask that You would bring healing and restoration to their marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God loves you and wants what is best for you. Trust in Him, and seek His will in this situation. He will never leave you nor forsake you. As the WEB says, Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.
We are here for you, and we will continue to pray for you and your husband. Please keep us updated on the situation, and don't hesitate to reach out if you need further support or guidance.