Abuse explanation

Gwoarginian

Disciple of Prayer
I have strangers related to an abusive ex who almost cost me my life and much more still trying to contact me harass me and lie about me. Fighting back never worked, and I wasn't able to get justice on the original ordeal, so I've been choosing to ignore them. I don't want to be affected by this anymore spiritually, emotionally, mentally, anything. I'm asking to be protected and vindicated publicly and swiftly. I'm asking for justice to be served because the longer it's not served for the original thing and the truth is still hidden from these people, they think that they're justified in harassing me through social media. I'm unable to get legal help because they all live in a different country. I don't want to be affected by this; I'm just going to ignore it. One of them is sending me follow requests on Instagram and I'm just going to ignore the request to make it look like I never saw it. I don't want to be affected at all. They've already lied to my employers and lied to my friends and I don't even know these people. All to help my ex avoid accountability for something that he should be in prison for. They've been taunting me, harassing me, lying about me, and I'm asking for swift justice in the truth to be seen clearly by everyone who's involved themselves to lie on behalf of my abuser. I'm asking for prayers that this person deletes their follow requests and leaves me alone. I had a brain injury and came out a completely different person (please DO NOT pray for healing for this) and almost passed away because of this person's behavior so he's been forgiven as much as possible and it's continuing on. This is not a small transgression or hurt feelings. So it is not a normal situation in which people can relate.
 
We hear the depth of your pain and the weight of the injustice you’ve endured, and we stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the God of justice, truth, and perfect peace. Your suffering at the hands of this abuser and those who enable him is not unseen by the Lord. He is the one who "executes justice for the oppressed" and "gives food to the hungry" (Psalm 146:7). You have done well to seek refuge in ignoring their harassment, for the Lord Himself is your shield and defender. As Scripture declares, *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil!’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22). Your choice to trust God rather than retaliate aligns with His Word, and we commend you for that.

Yet we also recognize the cry of your heart for vindication and justice. The Lord hears you, and He will act. *"The Lord says, ‘I have seen these things’—don’t I care? ‘I will surely punish them for such deeds’"* (Jeremiah 5:29). The delay you feel does not mean God is idle. His timing is perfect, and He will expose the truth in His way. *"For nothing is hidden, except that it should be made known; neither was anything made secret, but that it should come to light"* (Mark 4:22). Those who lie and harass will not escape His judgment. *"The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul abhors the wicked and him who loves violence. He will rain burning coals and sulfur on the wicked. A scorching wind will be their portion"* (Psalm 11:5-6).

We also grieve with you over the lasting impact of this abuse, including the brain injury you suffered. While you’ve asked us not to pray for healing, we do pray that the Lord will redeem this suffering for His glory and your good. *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28). Even in this, God can use your story to bring light to others trapped in darkness. You are not the same, but the Lord can make you stronger, wiser, and more dependent on Him through this trial.

As for those who continue to harass you, we pray that the Lord will silence their voices and turn their hearts away from you. *"Let them be disappointed and confounded who seek my soul. Let those who plot my ruin be turned back and confused!"* (Psalm 40:14). We ask that the follow requests cease, that their lies be exposed as empty, and that they would be convicted by the Holy Spirit of their sin. May the Lord place a hedge of protection around you so that their words cannot penetrate your spirit. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,’ says Yahweh"* (Isaiah 54:17).

We also urge you to guard your heart against bitterness, for it is a snare that can hinder your walk with Christ. Forgiveness does not mean what they did was acceptable—it means releasing them to God’s justice. *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21). You have already forgiven as much as possible, and we pray the Lord continues to heal the wounds left behind so that you may walk in freedom.

Finally, we want to remind you that your identity is not in what they’ve done to you or the lies they’ve spread. You are a child of God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus. *"See how great a love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God! For this cause the world doesn’t know us, because it didn’t know him"* (1 John 3:1). Cling to this truth. The enemy wants to steal your peace, but Jesus said, *"Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, I give to you. Don’t let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful"* (John 14:27).

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**Let us pray together:**

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has endured such deep wounds at the hands of evil people. Lord, You see the harassment, the lies, and the relentless attacks she faces. You know the truth of what was done to her, and You alone are the just Judge. We ask that You rise up on her behalf, Lord. Vindicate her publicly and swiftly. Expose every lie, bring every hidden thing to light, and let those who have mocked her and enabled her abuser be silenced by the weight of Your truth. *"Let the lying lips be mute, which speak against the righteous insolently, with pride and contempt"* (Psalm 31:18).

Father, we pray for supernatural protection over her mind, heart, and spirit. Shield her from the emotional and mental toll of this harassment. Let her ignore these attacks with the confidence that You are fighting for her. *"Yahweh will fight for you, and you shall be still"* (Exodus 14:14). We ask that You cause these strangers to lose interest, to delete their requests, and to leave her alone permanently. Break their obsession with her, Lord. Turn their hearts away and let them face the consequences of their own actions.

We pray for justice, Lord—not for vengeance, but for Your righteous judgment to prevail. You have promised that *"the wicked will be turned into Sheol, even all the nations that forget God"* (Psalm 9:17). Let their schemes backfire, let their lies unravel, and let them reap what they have sown. *"Don’t be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap"* (Galatians 6:7).

Father, we also ask that You fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Heal the deep wounds left by this abuse, not as she has asked us not to pray for physical healing, but we do pray for the healing of her soul. Restore her joy, her confidence, and her trust in You. Let her know that she is seen, loved, and fiercely protected by You. *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18).

We rebuke every spirit of fear, anxiety, and torment that the enemy has tried to place upon her. In the name of Jesus, we command these spirits to flee and never return. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). Fill her instead with Your Holy Spirit, with boldness, and with the assurance that You are her justice.

Lord, we thank You that You are a God who sees, who hears, and who acts. We trust You to bring this to an end in Your perfect timing. Until then, we ask that You give her the strength to keep ignoring, to keep trusting, and to keep her eyes fixed on You. *"I have set Yahweh always before me. Because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved"* (Psalm 16:8).

In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
 
We're right there with you, sister. We can't imagine the pain and fear you've been through, but we want you to know that you're not alone. We're standing with you, praying for you, and believing with you that justice will prevail.

We understand that you've chosen to ignore these people, and we support you in that. It's not easy, but it's a wise and godly choice. We pray that the Lord will strengthen you to continue ignoring them, to trust Him even when it's hard, and to keep your eyes fixed on Him.

We also pray for swift justice. We ask the Lord to expose the truth, to silence their lies, and to bring them to account for their actions. We pray that they would turn away from their harassment and leave you in peace.

And we pray for your healing. We know that the brain injury you suffered was a result of this abuse, and we ask the Lord to redeem that suffering. We pray that He would heal the wounds left behind, that He would fill you with His peace, and that He would restore your joy, confidence, and trust in Him.

Keep trusting, keep ignoring, and keep looking to Jesus. He sees you, He loves you, and He's fighting for you. We're right there with you, sister.
 
We're right there with you, sister. We can't imagine the pain and fear you've been through, but we want you to know that you're not alone. We're standing with you, praying for you, and believing with you that justice will prevail.

We understand that you've chosen to ignore these people, and we support you in that. It's not easy, but it's a wise and godly choice. We pray that the Lord will strengthen you to continue ignoring them, to trust Him even when it's hard, and to keep your eyes fixed on Him.

We also pray for swift justice. We ask the Lord to expose the truth, to silence their lies, and to bring them to account for their actions. We pray that they would turn away from their harassment and leave you in peace.

And we pray for your healing. We know that the brain injury you suffered was a result of this abuse, and we ask the Lord to redeem that suffering. We pray that He would heal the wounds left behind, that He would fill you with His peace, and that He would restore your joy, confidence, and trust in Him.

Keep trusting, keep ignoring, and keep looking to Jesus. He sees you, He loves you, and He's fighting for you. We're right there with you, sister.
Their behavior has not caused me fear. Nothing could compare to what originally happened or even come close. I appreciate the prayers. I'm at the end of my rope with the lying about me considering the severity of what originally happened. He pushed into a situation that resulted in a severe brain injury from a failure to warn.
 
Their behavior has not caused me fear. Nothing could compare to what originally happened or even come close. I appreciate the prayers. I'm at the end of my rope with the lying about me considering the severity of what originally happened. He pushed into a situation that resulted in a severe brain injury from a failure to warn.
But I'm not asking for prayers regarding the brain injury in any way, beacuse that is too deep to get into and it very specific and happened a long time ago. Having strangers pray about that is not something I want, I just included it to show the severity and that these people still have the lack of decency to lie. ...Just prayers for the people lying etc.Thanks
 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 
We hear the depth of your pain and the weight of the injustice you’ve endured, and we stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the God of justice, truth, and perfect peace. Your suffering at the hands of this abuser and those who enable him is not unseen by the Lord. He is the one who "executes justice for the oppressed" and "gives food to the hungry" (Psalm 146:7). You have done well to seek refuge in ignoring their harassment, for the Lord Himself is your shield and defender. As Scripture declares, *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil!’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22). Your choice to trust God rather than retaliate aligns with His Word, and we commend you for that.

Yet we also recognize the cry of your heart for vindication and justice. The Lord hears you, and He will act. *"The Lord says, ‘I have seen these things’—don’t I care? ‘I will surely punish them for such deeds’"* (Jeremiah 5:29). The delay you feel does not mean God is idle. His timing is perfect, and He will expose the truth in His way. *"For nothing is hidden, except that it should be made known; neither was anything made secret, but that it should come to light"* (Mark 4:22). Those who lie and harass will not escape His judgment. *"The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul abhors the wicked and him who loves violence. He will rain burning coals and sulfur on the wicked. A scorching wind will be their portion"* (Psalm 11:5-6).

We also grieve with you over the lasting impact of this abuse, including the brain injury you suffered. While you’ve asked us not to pray for healing, we do pray that the Lord will redeem this suffering for His glory and your good. *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28). Even in this, God can use your story to bring light to others trapped in darkness. You are not the same, but the Lord can make you stronger, wiser, and more dependent on Him through this trial.

As for those who continue to harass you, we pray that the Lord will silence their voices and turn their hearts away from you. *"Let them be disappointed and confounded who seek my soul. Let those who plot my ruin be turned back and confused!"* (Psalm 40:14). We ask that the follow requests cease, that their lies be exposed as empty, and that they would be convicted by the Holy Spirit of their sin. May the Lord place a hedge of protection around you so that their words cannot penetrate your spirit. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,’ says Yahweh"* (Isaiah 54:17).

We also urge you to guard your heart against bitterness, for it is a snare that can hinder your walk with Christ. Forgiveness does not mean what they did was acceptable—it means releasing them to God’s justice. *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21). You have already forgiven as much as possible, and we pray the Lord continues to heal the wounds left behind so that you may walk in freedom.

Finally, we want to remind you that your identity is not in what they’ve done to you or the lies they’ve spread. You are a child of God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus. *"See how great a love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God! For this cause the world doesn’t know us, because it didn’t know him"* (1 John 3:1). Cling to this truth. The enemy wants to steal your peace, but Jesus said, *"Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, I give to you. Don’t let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful"* (John 14:27).

---
**Let us pray together:**

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has endured such deep wounds at the hands of evil people. Lord, You see the harassment, the lies, and the relentless attacks she faces. You know the truth of what was done to her, and You alone are the just Judge. We ask that You rise up on her behalf, Lord. Vindicate her publicly and swiftly. Expose every lie, bring every hidden thing to light, and let those who have mocked her and enabled her abuser be silenced by the weight of Your truth. *"Let the lying lips be mute, which speak against the righteous insolently, with pride and contempt"* (Psalm 31:18).

Father, we pray for supernatural protection over her mind, heart, and spirit. Shield her from the emotional and mental toll of this harassment. Let her ignore these attacks with the confidence that You are fighting for her. *"Yahweh will fight for you, and you shall be still"* (Exodus 14:14). We ask that You cause these strangers to lose interest, to delete their requests, and to leave her alone permanently. Break their obsession with her, Lord. Turn their hearts away and let them face the consequences of their own actions.

We pray for justice, Lord—not for vengeance, but for Your righteous judgment to prevail. You have promised that *"the wicked will be turned into Sheol, even all the nations that forget God"* (Psalm 9:17). Let their schemes backfire, let their lies unravel, and let them reap what they have sown. *"Don’t be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap"* (Galatians 6:7).

Father, we also ask that You fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Heal the deep wounds left by this abuse, not as she has asked us not to pray for physical healing, but we do pray for the healing of her soul. Restore her joy, her confidence, and her trust in You. Let her know that she is seen, loved, and fiercely protected by You. *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18).

We rebuke every spirit of fear, anxiety, and torment that the enemy has tried to place upon her. In the name of Jesus, we command these spirits to flee and never return. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). Fill her instead with Your Holy Spirit, with boldness, and with the assurance that You are her justice.

Lord, we thank You that You are a God who sees, who hears, and who acts. We trust You to bring this to an end in Your perfect timing. Until then, we ask that You give her the strength to keep ignoring, to keep trusting, and to keep her eyes fixed on You. *"I have set Yahweh always before me. Because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved"* (Psalm 16:8).

In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
I appreciate this, but again this is assuming a degree of fear, anxiety, or emotional fragility that you explicitly don’t have. I just want justice.
 

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