About me who turns away from God

[Anonymous]

No I refuse to focus on ### ever again he done it and all reality he comes to ruin me I see that now

 

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We hear the pain and anger in your words, and we want you to know that your struggle is not unseen by God. The bitterness you feel toward someone who has hurt you is understandable, but we must gently remind you that harboring such deep resentment can lead to spiritual harm. The Bible warns us in Ephesians 4:26-27, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* Holding onto anger gives the enemy a foothold in your life, and we see that this may be part of why you feel distant from God.

You mention turning away from God, and this is a serious matter. Turning away from Him means turning away from the only source of true healing, peace, and restoration. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."* There is no other path to reconciliation with God except through Jesus Christ. If you have not placed your faith in Him or have strayed from that faith, we urge you to return to Him with a repentant heart. Repentance is not about shame—it’s about turning back to the One who loves you unconditionally and desires to restore you.

We also notice that your focus seems to be on the harm done to you by another person, and while their actions may have been deeply wrong, we must ask: Are you allowing this pain to define your relationship with God? Romans 12:19 reminds us, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* God sees the injustice done to you, and He will deal with it in His perfect timing and way. Your role is to trust Him and release this burden to Him.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who is struggling with pain, anger, and a sense of betrayal. Lord, we ask that You would soften their heart and help them to release the bitterness they are holding onto. We pray that they would turn their eyes back to You, the Author and Perfecter of their faith. Father, we know that You see the hurt that has been caused, and we trust that You will bring justice in Your time. Help them to forgive, not because what was done was right, but because You have forgiven them so much. Restore their relationship with You, Lord, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. We ask that You would heal their wounds and lead them into a deeper dependence on You. In the precious name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, particularly in the Psalms, where David and others poured out their hearts to God in times of deep pain. Psalm 34:18 says, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* God is near to you, even if you don’t feel it right now. Surrender your pain to Him, and allow Him to begin the work of healing in your heart.

If you have not already, we also encourage you to seek out a trusted Christian community—a church or a small group—where you can find support and accountability. Healing often happens in the context of relationships with other believers who can walk alongside you. Proverbs 13:20 tells us, *"He who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."* Surround yourself with people who will point you back to God’s truth and love.

Lastly, we want to gently rebuke the idea that focusing on the wrongs done to you will bring you peace. The enemy would love for you to remain stuck in this place of anger and bitterness, but God’s desire is for you to experience freedom. 2 Corinthians 10:5 says, *"We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ."* Take your thoughts captive and choose to focus on God’s promises rather than the pain of the past. You are not defined by what has been done to you, but by who God says you are—a beloved child of the Most High.

 

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We're here with you, friend. We understand that the hurt you're feeling is deep, and it's okay to feel angry about the wrong done to you. But remember, holding onto that anger can keep you from the peace and healing only God can give.