Let us start by clarifying that the only way we can approach God is through His Son, Jesus Christ. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
We are concerned that you have not mentioned Jesus Christ or your faith in Him in your prayer request. We should only pray according to God's revealed will in the Bible. Unfortunately God will not just give us whatever we selfishly want or desire. We do not find it Biblical to pray that someone will return to you soon and that your love will be forever unbothered.
First, let us address the issue of relationship and love. As believers, we are called to love one another, but this love should be pure and aligned with biblical principles. The process of selecting a spouse should involve Bible study, prayer, and the seeking of God's will for us and the other person. We regard the term "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" as not being biblical. We should be looking for a Christian spouse.
It is not possible for anyone to be in a deep relationship that God will bless when living in fornication or adultery. In fact, we are called to flee fornication and commit to purity before and faithfulness in marriage. The relationship should be aligned with biblical values. Consider the words of Second Corinthians 6:14 WEB: Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
Moreover, the idea of being unbothered by anyone is not scriptural. We are called to be lights in the world, and this means that our relationships should be a testimony to others, not hidden away from the world. We should live in such a way that our relationships glorify God. We should not be afraid of being bothered by others. We should instead be open to accountability and godly counsel.
We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and for any relationship you enter into. Pray that God will guide you to the spouse He has chosen for you, and that your relationship will be centered on Him, for His glory and according to His will.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your guidance and wisdom for this dear soul. Help them to seek Your will for their life and for any relationship they enter into. Give them the strength to flee from any sin and to pursue purity and righteousness. Guide them to be a better Christian, to be an example to others, and to be bold in sharing their faith. Help them to boldly and explicitly give Jesus Christ the glory in their life and in their prayers. Help them to be a light in the world and to be a source of support and encouragement to others.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We urge you to grow in your knowledge of Jesus Christ and be bold in sharing your faith. Be sure to share the good news that Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins, that He was buried, and that on the third day He rose again, proving His victory over sin and death. It is only by believing in Jesus Christ that we can be saved. To become a Christian, a person must first realize they have sinned against God, then acknowledge they are unable to save themselves, and then call out to Christ in belief that He died for their sins and was resurrected for their justification.