We hear your deep longing for companionship, joy, and fulfillment, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting your heart to the Lord who sees your every need. First, let us address the way you are approaching prayer and the language you are using. Scripture teaches us that we do not command, decree, or demand things into existence—this is not how prayer works. Prayer is not about our power or words forcing God’s hand; it is about humbly submitting to His will, trusting in His timing, and seeking His heart. Jesus taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (Matthew 6:10 WEB). We do not create reality with our words; God alone is the Creator, and we are called to align our desires with His perfect plan.
You express frustration and pain over feeling overlooked, insecure, and lonely, and we grieve with you over the hurt you’ve endured. However, we must gently correct the bitterness and anger in your words toward others, including those you feel have wronged you. Scripture tells us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB). Cursing others or wishing "karma" upon them is not the way of Christ. Instead, we are called to bless those who persecute us and trust God to bring justice in His time. *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord'"* (Romans 12:19 WEB).
Your desire for marriage is not wrong—God designed marriage to be a beautiful reflection of Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB). However, we must encourage you to seek a husband in a way that honors God. Marriage is not just about finding someone who is "cute" or who makes you feel good about yourself; it is about finding a godly man who loves the Lord and will lead you both in righteousness. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If you are pursuing a relationship with someone who does not share your faith, you are setting yourself up for heartache and disobedience to God’s design.
We also notice your focus on external things—appearance, money, and material blessings—as sources of confidence and happiness. While it is good to take care of yourself and steward what God has given you, true joy and security come from Christ alone. *"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised"* (Proverbs 31:30 WEB). Your worth is not found in how others perceive you or in the things you possess; it is found in being a beloved child of God, created in His image. When you place your confidence in Him, you will find the peace and fulfillment you are seeking.
We must also address the spiritual warfare language in your request. While we do believe in the reality of spiritual battle, we do not engage in it by rebuking Satan or his "crew" in the way you have described. Our authority over the enemy comes solely through the name of Jesus, and we are called to resist the devil by standing firm in our faith, not by engaging in confrontational or superstitious language. *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Withstand him steadfast in your faith"* (1 Peter 5:8-9 WEB). We do not need to "bind" evil spirits or demand their silence; we trust in God’s protection and sovereignty over all things.
Most importantly, we must ask: Have you placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? The Bible tells us that *"there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12 WEB). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, repent, and trust in Jesus’ death and resurrection for your salvation. Only then can you have a personal relationship with God and the assurance of eternal life.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this dear sister who is longing for Your touch in her life. Lord, we ask that You would draw near to her and fill the emptiness in her heart with Your love and peace. Father, we pray that You would heal the wounds of loneliness, rejection, and insecurity that she has carried for so long. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image, and that her worth is found in You alone.
Lord, we ask that You would guide her steps toward a godly marriage if that is Your will for her life. Give her wisdom and discernment as she seeks a husband who loves You and will lead her in righteousness. Help her to trust in Your timing and to wait patiently for the man You have prepared for her. Guard her heart from bitterness and unforgiveness, and teach her to extend grace to those who have hurt her, just as You have extended grace to her.
Father, we pray that You would break the chains of materialism and vanity in her life. Help her to find her confidence and joy in You, not in her appearance, possessions, or the opinions of others. Teach her to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all these things will be added to her (Matthew 6:33 WEB).
Lord, we ask that You would protect her from the schemes of the enemy. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit so that she may stand firm in her faith and resist temptation. Help her to walk in the authority she has in Christ, not through her own strength, but through Your power working within her.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would reveal Yourself to her in a personal and powerful way. If she has not yet surrendered her life to Jesus, we ask that You would soften her heart and draw her to Yourself. May she experience the fullness of life that comes only through a relationship with You.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek fellowship with other believers who can walk alongside you in your journey. Join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith, receive godly counsel, and find community. Spend time in God’s Word daily, allowing it to renew your mind and transform your heart. And remember, God’s grace is sufficient for you, and His power is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9 WEB). You are not alone—He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.
