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#1 August84_*guest*

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Posted December 19, 2011 - 6:59 PM

I would like everyone that views this to pray for my daughter and me. Pray to keep her safe and to help her see what is the right thing to do.

She has gotten involved with a young girl who is her best friend. The friend has decided she doesn't want to have that type of relationship and my daughter has acted out in a very violent way. She has physically and mentally acted out against the friend and me because I don't support her in this act and I have banned the friend from my house.

I am a single parent who has raised my daughter by myself since she was 1 along with my supportive family. Everyone has invested their lives and sacrificed greatly to allow her to shine.

To all the people who think this act is OK, I want you to understand how it ruins relationships and divides families.

I'm not a stupid person who doesn't understand that some people have physical reasons or mental reasons for making the choice of being with the same sex. That is not the case with my daughter. It's true she was the "tomboy" and "sporty", but just because she possesses those talents doesn't mean she has to be pegged as a lesbian. She is a beautiful, smart, talented young lady. Why does society puts this "label" on a girl just because she doesn't want to be a cheerleader and wear makeup?
She is making this choice because society has said that it's no big deal. It's alright. It's whatever you want to do. Her other friends are doing it, so what's the big deal? Also, she's 19 and she's gonna do what she wants when she wants to do it. I see more and more young girls and young men announce that they have made their decision about who they are spending the rest of their life with at a very young age. During the years when they are trying to find their way in the world, they feel more comfortable with same sex individuals for one reason or the other and at the same time their bodies are developing sexually and then one thing leads to another. I get it. I understand how it happens. Then, before you know it, your beautiful daughter who has beautiful long hair, cuts it short, then she starts walking and talking more like a man so she can "play" the part of a man in the relationship and then the "friend" gets to play the part of the pretty feminine wife. And your son who might not have the most masculine traits and not the quarterback of the football team start to think, well people think I look like a fag, so I might be, or it's just easier to assume that role because it's where I fit in.
Famous people have shoved this down our throats and tried to make it ok. Ellen Degeneres, Rosie O'Donnell....and even Oprah.....thanks to you saying that it's alright to the world....and everybody that thinks it's OK.
I would like you to know how bad this hurts. The only daughter I have...the only person that I have loved, devoted my life to, cherished...sacrificed, devoted my life to.... I just want you to know....it's not alright.

It's Christmas, and I want my daughter with me and the family that has loved her dearly all these years. But I am sitting here crying my eyes out with a broken heart because I told my daughter her "friend" can't stay here. My daughter yelled out all kinds of horrible hurtful things, packed and left. I don't know where she is at. I don't know if she is OK. She is only 19 years old. I don't know if she will ever come back home.

To all of you out there suffering this same plight, it's awful. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. The hurt I'm feeling can't be alright. It can't be "no big deal". It can't be that I'm just a small minded person. It can't be ok just because everyone else is doing it.

I feel so betrayed. I let her best friend into my house all this time and was like a mother to her because she didn't have a nicer home to go.
Why does someone who is trying to help and be nice to someone get taken advantage of and deceived? I'm so hurt, I don't know if I will ever stop crying.

Don't any lesbian or gay man even try to tell me that God loves everybody! I know that! This can't be right. I have seen this destroy several families. How can something that hurts so badly be right? This is not a tatoo, this is not trying drugs, this is not drinking alcohol, this is not getting a DUI. This is not an unplanned pregnancy.

Let's just say it. This is having sex in an unnatural way. This is loving a person of the same sex and then having sex with them. This can not be right. Don't even try to tell me this is ok. I am so disgusted even thinking about my daughter doing this. And now because I don't agree and won't allow this to happen in my house, I have lost the most important person in my whole life. I feel like my heart has been jerked out of my chest and ripped to shreds.

Now I'm having to deal with a daughter whose heart is also broken because the friend has decided she wants to go back to her boyfriend. She gets to walk away and life goes on for her.
Now I have to worry not only about what my daughter my do to her but what she might do to herself. She is very out of control and dangerous. She has threatened to kill her and the boyfriend. She has abandoned all she has been taught. My house has turned from a normal, loving, house to a Jerry Springer episode. I'm at a lose.

How can this happen to our family and how in God's name can this be alright. How am I supposed to say, it's whatever you want to do with your life? If you want to lie in the bed with your best girlfriend and have unnatural sex, it's ok with me? Because if I don't allow you to do all this and accept all this, I don't love you for what you are? Because I don't allow this, I'm old fashioned? Because I don't allow this, I am a bad mother and I'm going to have to answer to God for not accepting my daughter's decision?

This all is the most absurd and unbelievable crap I've ever had to deal with! God, I need you to remove this hurtful and insane stuff from my daughter's brain and body and from my life!!!
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#2 Marirod

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Posted December 19, 2011 - 7:46 PM

Lord answer this prayer Lord and intervene the hearts of these young people. Lift the veil from their eyes and help them to see the truth. Give this mother strength to set the boundaries Lord jesus! In your name Amen!
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#3 The Encourager

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Posted December 19, 2011 - 9:01 PM

Let’s Pray… God I ask in Jesus’ name, walk through my home, the homes of all my Christian family members, Christian friends (but especially my home Lord Jesus), and the writer of this prayer, take away all our worries, fears, and doubts that You will come through for us. Come through for us Lord Jesus as You have promised in Your Word. Fix what is wrong in our lives and in our homes. Deliver us from all fears and anxieties. Deliver us from evil. If there is anything in our lives this is not of You God, Deliver us from it. God let the favor of God be upon us. Let Your presence, wisdom, understanding, strength, courage, protection, healing and deliverance power be with us and rest upon our lives. Let love, joy, peace, kindness, gentleness, and self-control rest in us and upon us. Let all the fruits of the Holy Spirit be in operation in all our lives. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in each of us. Bless us with the desires of our heart that is the will of God for our lives. Bless us. Supply all our need according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Bless us with new jobs, better jobs, promotions, raises, and increase in our finances. Bless each of us with wisdom to become wise stewards over all that You have or will bless us with. But most importantly, let our lifestyle be shaped by the Word of God. Teach us all how to love, honor, and respect You with our life, spirit, soul, and body. And God all my family and friends that are not saved, I ask that You will send someone into their lives and minister the gift of salvation unto them. Save my family and friends Lord Jesus. I ask all of this in Jesus’ name. Amen!!!

Encourager Linda Flagg, LM, CS
Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister
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#4 faithope

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Posted December 20, 2011 - 2:11 AM

Dear Lord, You truly know the pain and agony of this lady's heart. Comfort her as she seeks You through Your word. ANd if she is not connected to a church, may she find the one that You will have her to be planted in as we ask this in Your lovely Name, amen.

Dear August84

It will be great if you could visit the stie below...it is also about a mother who went through the same thing like you.

http://www.cbn.com/7...eche090806.aspx
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#5 Eugene

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Posted December 20, 2011 - 8:42 AM

Nowhere in the Bible are we encouraged to compromise with wicked and immoral and peverse things. People ought to know the truth and they ought to know what is wrong and innaceptable in the eyes of God. Ty explaining your daugter that you have never stopped loving her because you stand for the truth and purity. Explain to her that those filthy gay and lesb. things are destuctive and corrupt and that the Lord can cleanse us from it and give us a new heart.

Edited by Eugene, December 20, 2011 - 8:43 AM.

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#6 The Encourager

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Posted December 20, 2011 - 5:25 PM

Child of God,

Let’s Pray…Father God, in the name of Jesus, I ask that You will bless each member of my family (including myself). I plead the blood of Jesus over all our lives. I bind all of Satan wicked devices and tools in the name of Jesus that he is trying to use against my family (especially my child). Save, bless, deliver, heal, sanctify, set us free and set us apart for the glory of God. Make us all fit for the Master’s Use.

Lead, guide, and direct our footsteps. Let Love, Joy, Hope, Faith, Holiness, Purity, Peace, Protection, Prosperity, Wisdom, Knowledge, and Understanding rest in each of our homes, hearts, and lives. Make our family whole in You Lord Jesus. May we all come to know You, Love You, and Obey You. Let our lives be shaped by the Word of God. Be Lord Of All in All Our Lives. And all that I have asked of You God in this prayer please do the same for the writer of this prayer. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen, So Be It.


Encourager Linda Flagg, LM, CS
Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister
www.theencourager.net / www.encourager.us



PS: If You Absolutely, Positively, Undeniably, No Doubt About It, Want to Be Blessed Today, Tomorrow, & For the Rest of Your Life…Just Obey God’s Word! Let Your Lifestyle be Shaped by the Word of God. God Honors Obedience, You have God’s Word on It.

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#7 faithope

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Posted December 22, 2011 - 3:07 AM

Dear Lord, You truly know the pain and agony of this lady's heart. Comfort her as she seeks You through Your word. ANd if she is not connected to a church, may she find the one that You will have her to be planted in as we ask this in Your lovely Name, amen.

Dear August84

It will be great if you could visit the stie below...it is also about a mother who went through the same thing like you.

http://www.cbn.com/7...eche090806.aspx


Here is another one for you to help you out :-

http://shop.cbn.com/...view&index=1034
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