My sister, I give you this information because I am a servant of God and have to do what God has placed me to do. I have accountability for speaking the truths of God so that none would stumble because of me, better a millstone about my neck and cast into the sea before I would lead a child of God astray. Therefore, I need to deliver unto you the word of God, which is spiritual law. I will say that I do not know the will of God in this matter, so I will pray the will of God be done, and other then that all I can do is give you the direct word of God over this mans situation.
This man was married. Because he was married to another, I am going say based on the word of God himself, that God is most likely not pleased that a daughter of his would be in relationship with this man, and I believe he has probably spared you a lot of pain and sorrow by allowing this man to be removed, that things played out as they have because he was protecting you, he has spared you much more pain and sorrow to come of this then you feel right now in this break up. This because the word of God instructs us that God hates divorce:
Malachi 2:16 I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4
To the married people , I , the Lord charge that the woman (or man) must not separate or divorce her husband (or wife), but if she/he does, she/he must remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. To the husband I charge the husband/wife that he is not to put away or divorce his/her wife/husband.
1Corinthians 7:10-11
Luke 16:18 Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. (sis, this man would make an adulteress out of you, has, according to Gods word and I stand solely on Gods word and I would hope you would as well)
What God has joined together no man can separate or divide. Mark 10:9 (This means no man).
(Matthew 5:32) 32 but I tell you that whoever puts away his wife, except for the cause of fornication, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is put away commits adultery.
(Matthew 19:9) 9 I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for fornication, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.â€"
(Mark 10:11-12) 11 He said to them, "“Whoever divorces his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her.
12 If a woman herself divorces her husband, and marries another, she commits adultery.
I also want to clarify for you, in case anyone is trying to use the devils get out of jail free card with the error made in the Matthews scripture about the only reason a man can divorce his wife. Some try to say that a people can divorce if the other spouse has committed adultery. This was a grave translation error when man rewrote the bible to make it easier reading. God knew it would happen, he knows all, and he covered it. In the original biblical text the word used was not adultery, for why Moses allowed a man to put away his wife, the word used was fornication..man, not God, changed the word to adultery. God covered it by Jesus referring to the laws of Moses right there in the same paragraph and conversation with the Pharisees. He refers them back to the laws of Moses, which was what the entire discussion was about..Moses law of the only reason you could divorce. If you go back to the laws of Moses, the law states that a man can put away his wife on the wedding night when upon consumation of the vow he finds her to unpure, not a virgin, a fornicator. And then only because of the hardening of his heart, even then God did not want the covenant vow broken, but back then a dowry was paid and it could cause great loss to the brides family and women were totally dependent on man for survival and God knew a man with a hardened heart would not provide properly for that woman. Gods law about adultery was an adulterer or adulteress was executed, death by stoning. You cannot divorce a deal person, and Gods word said the only out clause in a marriage is death of one of the spouses. They are bound til death do them part. Then and only then are they free to remarry. Any relations with another is adultery, straight up.
So sis, this is why I say God protected you by allowing everything to unfold as it has and to remove this man from your life. Because another word of God is this, and it is key to your spiritual life, your inheriting the kingdom of God. Because his word also says,
(1 Corinthians 6:9) 9 Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals,
So sis, I believe with all my heart based on the living and solid word of God, that God has separated this man for you for your own good and benefit, so that you not be made an adulteress and be in that sin that leads to not inheriting the kingdom of God. God loves you, and he wants you to be right before him, not in sin. God restores marriages every day, that is one of his biggest businesses in the kingdom. So I am going to pray that God gives you revelation into anything hidden in this relationship, spiritual understanding and wisdom, and that His will and nothing but be done, that he protect you from all harm and keep the devil out of your life, and not let him deceive you in any way. If it is Gods will for you to be with this man, then he will allow it, but otherwise I ask that he do all to spare you any deceptions of his enemy.
Father God, I pray that if there be anything hidden in the dark, it be brought into the light and be revealed to my sister. That you give her spiritual understanding and wisdom over Your will in this, and that only Your will be done in this matter, none others so that my sister be safe and secure in her walk with you. Lord Jesus Christ, bind the enemy from this situation, from any and all deceptions by him, and loose revelation, wisdom and Your Holy Spirit to guide my sister and to direct her steps. Father, your word says that man may make his plans but you will direct his steps, direct the steps in this Father, in Jesus Mighty Name I pray. You change the hearts of Kings Lord, you channel hearts like streams of water through your hands directing them in the way they should go, direct my sisters heart like a stream of water now Lord, in the way it should go that glorifies You and keeps her in line with your will and the plans you have for her life. Lord, let no one or nothing cause her to stumble, place a millstone about the necks and cast into the sea before anyone cause her to stumble Lord. Open my sisters eyes to see you and your will clearly, open her ears Lord to hear you clearly, open her heart to accept whatever your will may be, and give her peace with any direction you lead her in. I thank You Father, I praise you, thank You Lord Jesus, all glory be unto you and our Father in Heaven, thank you Lord, all glory be yours forever ever, we love you, we praise you, for only you are worthy. Thank you Jesus, In Your Mighty Name I pray, Amen
