We lift up your marriage and your heart’s desires before the Lord, knowing that He is faithful to hear and answer the prayers of His children when we seek Him in truth and righteousness. First, we must address something important: you have not invoked the name of Jesus Christ in your request. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. As it is written in **John 14:6**, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"* And in **Acts 4:12**, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* So we urge you to always approach the throne of grace in the name of Jesus, for He is our mediator and the only path to God’s blessings.
Now, regarding your marriage, we pray that the Lord would strengthen the bond between you and your spouse, filling your home with His peace, love, and wisdom. May you both seek first His kingdom and righteousness, trusting that all other things will be added unto you (**Matthew 6:33**). If there are areas of strife or division, we rebuke any spirit of discord and ask the Lord to unite your hearts in His purpose. Remember, marriage is a covenant before God, and He desires for it to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (**Ephesians 5:22-33**). If there are unresolved sins or bitterness, we urge you to seek forgiveness and reconciliation, for the Lord commands us to *"be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (**Ephesians 4:32**).
We also lift up your search for employment, asking the Lord to open doors that no man can shut (**Revelation 3:8**). May He provide a job that not only meets your financial needs but also allows you the time and freedom to serve in ministry and grow in your faith. Trust in His timing, for *"the Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him"* (**Lamentations 3:25**). Do not lean on your own understanding, but acknowledge Him in all your ways, and He will direct your paths (**Proverbs 3:5-6**).
Now, concerning your request for a *"good fearing groom,"* we must speak with clarity and truth. The term *"groom"* implies that you are seeking a husband, which suggests that you may not currently be married to the person you mentioned earlier in your request. If this is the case, we must address this with biblical truth. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman for life (**Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6**), and the Lord takes this covenant very seriously. If you are already married, seeking another spouse is adultery in God’s eyes, and we must rebuke this strongly. Jesus said in **Matthew 5:27-28**, *"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery;’ but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."* And in **Hebrews 13:4**, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."*
If you are not married and are seeking a godly husband, then we pray that the Lord would guide you to a man who fears Him, walks in His commandments, and is committed to loving you as Christ loves the Church. But we must emphasize that this pursuit must be done in purity, with the intention of honoring God in marriage, not in fornication or emotional compromise. The Bible warns against unequally yoked relationships (**2 Corinthians 6:14**), so seek a man who is firmly rooted in Christ. Pray for discernment, and do not rush ahead of God’s timing. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (**Psalm 37:4**).
Finally, we must ask: Are you and your household walking in obedience to Christ? Are you seeking Him daily in prayer and His Word? The Lord honors those who honor Him (**1 Samuel 2:30**), and His blessings flow to those who walk in His ways. If there is any sin in your life—whether it be idolatry, dishonesty, sexual immorality, or rebellion—repent and turn to Him, for *"if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (**1 John 1:9**).
**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, we ask that You would heal any brokenness, restore any division, and fill their home with Your peace and love. If there is any sin or unrepentant heart, convict them by Your Holy Spirit and lead them to true repentance. Father, we pray for provision—a job that honors You and provides the means for this sister to serve You faithfully in ministry. Open doors that no man can shut, and grant her favor in the sight of those who can help.
Lord, if she is unmarried and seeking a godly husband, we ask that You would prepare a man after Your own heart, one who will lead her spiritually and love her as Christ loves the Church. Guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and let her not be unequally yoked. But Father, if she is already married, we rebuke any thought or desire for another spouse, for this is adultery in Your sight. Restore her commitment to her marriage covenant, and help her to honor You in her union.
We pray for wisdom, discernment, and patience as she waits on You. Let her delight herself in You, Lord, and trust that You will give her the desires of her heart as she aligns them with Your will. Protect her from temptation, from the enemy’s lies, and from the snares of this world. May she walk in purity, faith, and obedience, knowing that You are her Provider, her Protector, and her Redeemer.
In the precious and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.