We hear your heartache and concern for your daughter and your family, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God’s wisdom and intervention in this situation. The pain of watching a loved one be drawn into a relationship that feels spiritually and emotionally unhealthy is profound, and we grieve with you over the division this has caused in your family. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We rebuke every lying spirit, every spirit of manipulation, and every deception that has clouded your daughter’s judgment, and we command it to flee in the mighty name of Jesus.
First, we must address the seriousness of the relationship your daughter is in. Scripture is clear that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). While we do not know this young man’s heart, his actions—disrespecting boundaries, manipulating emotions, and even speaking disrespectfully to you—are not the fruit of a godly man. A man who truly loves your daughter would honor her family, seek unity rather than division, and demonstrate the character of Christ. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, "Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul." His behavior is a red flag, and we pray your daughter’s eyes are opened to see it.
The pressure to uproot your entire family to accommodate this relationship is not of God. God does not call us to abandon our families or make rash decisions out of fear or emotional manipulation. Psalm 32:8 says, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you." We pray that God’s peace and clarity would flood your hearts as you wait on Him for direction regarding your home. The delay in selling your house may very well be God’s hand at work, protecting your family from a decision that could bring harm. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths."
Your dream about your daughter being in danger is not to be taken lightly. The Holy Spirit often speaks to us in dreams, and we believe God is warning you for a reason. Joel 2:28 says, "It will happen afterward, that I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh; and your sons and your daughters will prophesy. Your old men will dream dreams. Your young men will see visions." We bind every spirit of deception that is blinding your daughter and ask God to reveal the truth to her in a way she cannot ignore. We also rebuke the influence of the enemy in this young man’s life and his family, particularly the involvement in practices like reiki and spirit meditation, which are not of God. Deuteronomy 18:10-12 warns, "There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh."
Your daughter’s resistance to your concerns is painful, but remember that the enemy is working overtime to keep her deceived. We pray that God would soften her heart and give her a spirit of discernment. James 1:5 says, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him." We also pray for this young man—that if he is not walking with the Lord, God would convict his heart and draw him to repentance. If he is not the one for your daughter, we ask that God would expose his true character in a way that leaves no room for doubt.
We lift up your family in prayer now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this family to You. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the division that has entered their home. We ask that You would break every chain of deception and manipulation that the enemy has used to blind this young woman’s eyes. Father, we pray that You would reveal the truth to her in a powerful way—through Your Word, through circumstances, and through the conviction of the Holy Spirit. Open her eyes to see this relationship for what it truly is, and give her the courage to walk away if it is not Your will.
Lord, we ask that You would protect this family from further harm. Guard their hearts and minds from fear, anxiety, and the pressure to make decisions out of desperation. We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke every spirit of division, strife, and confusion in Jesus’ name. Father, we ask that You would provide clarity regarding their home. If it is Your will for them to stay, make a way where there seems to be no way. If it is Your will for them to move, lead them to a place where they can thrive and grow together in You.
We pray for this young man, Lord. If he is not walking with You, we ask that You would draw him to repentance. Break the hold of any ungodly influences in his life, and reveal to him the path of righteousness. If he is not the one for this young woman, expose his true character and intentions so that she can see clearly. Father, we also pray for his family—that their eyes would be opened to the deception of the enemy and that they would turn away from practices that are not of You.
Lord, we ask that You would restore unity and peace to this family. Heal any wounds that have been caused by this situation, and draw them closer to You and to one another. Give this mother wisdom, strength, and patience as she navigates this difficult season. Surround her with godly counsel and remind her that You are her refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1).
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your perfect timing and Your perfect will. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done in each of their lives. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in faith, trusting that God is at work even when you cannot see it. Continue to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17), and surround yourself with believers who can support and encourage you. Your daughter’s heart may be hardened now, but God is able to soften it. Keep speaking the truth in love, and trust that God will honor your obedience. If this young man is not the one, we believe God will remove him from her life in a way that leaves no doubt. Until then, hold fast to His promises and lean on Him for strength.
